Monday, May 26, 2008

quickie

may 17th:
arrived in Aizawl, Nic's old pad, to see some of his friends and check out the people of Mizoram. THe state is a mixture of both India, China and Myanmar but it's not at the same time. We went to some schools and talked in front of giggly 8th and 12th graders about our lives in Canada. One of the girls said she loved me, so I guess I know I can always go back to Aizawl. we met some of nic's good friends; Mr. Supreme and his supreme family, LP and Daisy (best cook in India so far) and some beautiful young Mizo girls. Nic met Sentai (age 18) last time he was there and so we were invited to there house for our last night. Sentai's older sister, who is 21, is a Mizo pop star and has put out a CD. the house was incredible and by far the nicest and biggest we have seen in India so far. we are not sure where the money is coming from though, but the mom does grow roses in her huge green houses and sells them all over the world. or they could be drug lords, you never know.
May 21st:
We head on our first train journey to SIliguri for a wedding of Nic's old friend. We miss our actual train becuase Nic is discharging from both ends and is very sick. We hop on a train the next day and are picked up at the train station. We had no idea where we were going, but the dudes had a sign with our name on it, so it seemed legit. We showed up at a wedding and the putting on of the rings was interrupted to invite us, the guests in. It was awkward to say the least. A meal followed to ceremony which was also delicious and then we went in search of our hotel.
May 22nd:
Took a jeep up to Darjeeling, one of the famous hill stations in India , sitting at 2800 m. You are able to see Everest and Katamungo on a clear day, but there were none for us unfortunately. We visisted some sights; the zoo, the himalayan mountaineering institute, some religious places, a tea estate and some good restaurants that served us up some pizza's.
May 24th:
We took our big train ride to dehli. The train was nice and we had our own little compartement with four beds. It was also 9 hours late, making the journey a total of 33 hours. We arrived Dehli and found the way to the hotel. This morning we headed to Agra and got ripped off by a taxi. As much as that sucked, seeing the Taj Mahal is unbelievable.
So here I sit in Agra. We have one full day here tomorrow to catch the sunrising behind the Taj and then the red fort. Train back to delhi on Wednesday, see some sights and then hop on a plane for Oman on Friday. I am very excited to go back to Oman.
We are safe and continually blessed on this trip. See you guys at home soon.
T.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

namaste

we are back in the city for a couple of nights to regroup, get some clothes washed and eat some solid canadian food at the McMillan's. They are doing a great job feeding so many mouths and we truly grateful for their hospitality.

it is crazy to think that a huge cyclone has hit so close to where we are and I have heard almost nothing about it. please keep those people in your prayers. for a read about the country and what has happened, click the "Kori and Lisa" link on the right. they visited the country very recently and have some good insight on the situation.

our time here in kalapani / guwahati has gone by both quickly and slowly. we decdided that we would stay in the village, sleeping in a room at the back of a school and paying a local nepalese woman to cook meals for us. we call her "didi," the respectful nepalese term for sister. she is a little taller than my waste level and her face lights up when we try to communicate with her through the little hindi and nepali that we know. i like to think of her as our own oompa loompa, without the singing and dancing unfortunately. every meal is complete with rice and dahl (boiled lentils, chili's and some sort of spice powder) complimented by a small dish of another type of curry. In the mornings she cooks roti, which is a small chipati or naan bread along with a curry. the food is delicious. we have been taking a risk by drinking the water there, and a lot of it, as it flows down from the surrounding mountain somehwere. THey put it through a slow sand filtration system, and then it is filtered again in an indian equilavent to a Brita Filter, except it looks like a church coffee urn. Boiling the water would be best, but so far we have been safe. I will not be suprised if we have some nice stomach parasites upon returning to Canada. Worth it.

every morning we wake up at 6, have tea and then work on the fence for two hours. breakfast is served around 8:30 and then we try and work for a little while longer in the heat. most days have been 30 plus with 100% humidity. the school starts at 9, and we teach the older students english from 11:30 to 1 and then eat some lunch. the afternoon usually consists of a nap. everything shuts down in the hot hours of the day. if we feel like it, we do some more work around 4, or play cricket and football with the local kids that come up to the school in the afternoons. tea is served around 5, we have a small devo for whoever wants to sit down with us and listen to us speak in a language they don't understand, and then we hang out by candlelight until dinner at 8.

the village people seemed very shy at first, but everyone is becoming more friendly as they get used to us. many of the men in the village drink heavily at night, which has been causing some problems. none for us thankfully.

we will stay in kalapani until saturday and then head to another city, Aizawl on the 19th for a visit. on the 23rd we will come back to Guwahati in order to catch our 30 hour train ride to Dehli on the 24th. 4 days spent in Agra and Dehli will be followed by a 6 day visit in Oman.

emotionally and spiritually, we have all been feeling the same things. the short term mission dilemna has hit again, all of us wondering if we are being more of a pain than help. it is interesting living in the village. you are constanty dirty, sweaty and hot. We wouldn't have it any other way.

India is such a diverse country, with so many different cultures and languages. All of us are pretty bummed that we only get to see a small portion of the country. You could easily spend 4 months travelling around here and still not be bored.

Check out Nic's blog (link on the right) for some good stories too.

peace and love from everyone here in India. namaste.

Friday, May 02, 2008

a lot can happen over coffee

Nic and Bonnie have been journaling a lot, recording the events that have happened so far. I find it difficult to journal for some reason. Maybe it is because I feel like I am talking to myself. At least on here I know there are one or two people who will read it, so that makes typing things worthwhile.
There are too many stories to tell so far. We went to the Mother Theresa house. Unfortunately it was closed on Thursdays because it is the sisters day of prayer so all we got to see was her tomb.
We saw a sweet bollywood movie called "Tashan." It was all in Hindi but it was still the best 50 rupees we have spent so far. The action was ridiculous and the dance moves were intense. I learned a few to show you when we get home.
After that we went to New Market, a touristy bazaar. the salesman and beggars were very aggressive. many of the beggars followed us for awhile, grabbing on to and cutting in front of us. they seemed to target bonnie the most, so we made her walk in the middle of us boys to shield her a bit.
On the way home we stopped at the Golden Fast Food restaurant and had some rolls. These are chipati and egg with a bunch of vegetables. delicious, filling and cheap.
We had met some boys on the street the day before and played cricket with them. As we walked home they were already waiting for us to play. Eric, Nic and I actually won a game.
Today, we went to a big mall that was A/C'ed and hung out for a while. We didn't really shop but it was a nice place to escape the heat. We enjoyed an espresso at Cafe Coffee Day. Espresso is one of those things I always think I will like and I always end up hating it. maybe one day I will learn.
We made it to the airport and waited for our flight that was delayed 2 hours. the weather was bad so the flight was pretty bumpy. one spot we hit was the worst turbulence I've ever experienced, but we made it to Guwahati in one piece.
Ray and Ellen's should be fun. I'm sure Nic will put a much better blog up than this one soon, so stay tuned for that.

one quote from the Blessed Theresa that struck me: "We can do no great things...only small things with great love."

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

sweet lime.

The trip has gone extremely smooth thus far. We got all our bags in Kolkatta and even each had a row to ourselves on the flight here so we could sleep. We are staying at some friends of Nics, and they do not have A/C and it is about 40 degrees outside. Not very pleasant, but we are getting the full experience. Breakfast was had at a little vendor on the street. Some nan, onions and chick pea curry. Delicious. We got haircuts after that and all look the part well. While hanging out at the house for the morning we were greeted by a gang of white monkeys. everyone was outside there homes chekcing them out. they said it was the first time they ever saw white monkeys here. We went to the Victoria Memorial later in the afternoon, a big marble building via autorickshaw and underground transit. the driving, like Uganda, is unreal and never gets old. constant horns and dodging in any space the car can fit. We are here for tonight and tomorrow night, then fly to Guwahati to be greeted by Ray. hopefully they have A/C! it's the first day but it feels like we have been here a week. everyone says hi. will update more later.

Friday, October 12, 2007

mormons, mormons everywhere

here I am sitting in the Salt Lake City, Utah and this is the first free hour I have in a long time to sit, surf friends blogs and think about life. The only sucky thing is I paid 5 bucks for this internet. I better make this blog worth it.

I have been enjoying reading Kori and Lisa's blog and as they contemplate our living situation in Canada and try to relate that to the experience we just had in Uganda. I would echo every word that they have said so far, so there is no reason for me to delve into the, I hate to say it, cliche comments about how we have so much and they have so little. For some reason it is so easy to shrug those type of words off as cliche and to forget what they are communicating before we finish reading them. John has asked me to talk for a couple minutes about my experience at ignite this weekend, so I want to try and bring a fresh approach to talking about the experience of visiting a third world country.

I am continually frustrated when I think about what I can actually do to help the people I interacted with. They had already been given the only thing that has any meaning and importance; the message and love of Jesus Christ. What more can I bring apart from the luxuries of the western world and basically money? Don't get me wrong, our trip was definetely not in vain. The spiritual encouragement on both sides far outweighed any cost of the trip to get there. Sure, we built them a playgroud, worked on their school, taught them and brought them things that they could not afford, but the trip meant so much more. We were able to strengthen their hope in the one true God, the only one that they have to rely on, trust and confide in. The only thing that gets them through their long, hungry days.
But let me go back to the question: what more can I bring them?
When we go and take with us these 'things,' and by things I mean our VBS program, the soccer balls, the jerseys, the pencil cases etc etc. These are not bad things, but are we not taking them the things that have so corrupted our own society, turning it away from trusting in our God to provide? What are communicating to the young children in Africa? That these things bring happiness? Do we help those in Africa by trying to make their lives like ours? I'm not so sure.

Hopefully you can see my thought struggle here, and I'm sure there is no easy answer. For those who don't know, I am coming home this weekend for a visit. Maybe I'll get to see you.

Wednesday, September 12, 2007

thank you

i'd like to thank all of those who replied to my last post. i didn't think it was at all one that would start a series of replies like it did. i owe it all to alicia.

if you haven't read all the comments in 'processing' I encourage you to do so. there are some great things to contemplate.

there is a chapel on campus called 'seekers chapel' which focuses on discussing difficult christian topics. this week the theme is "to what extent can God know the future." It would be nice to hear you opinions.

I will blog and make mine known at a later date.

Friday, August 31, 2007

processing

i've been doing a lot of thinking.

we talk about coming back to our western culture and coming back to our 'routines.' there is talk of not letting ourselves slip back into them, whatever they may be.

how do we live life after coming back from a missional experience, such as africa, and not go back into our routines?

the fact is, how we live life in north america is how we live life. when I first came home, I almost felt bad for using the tap to get water, for buying groceries and for even using my computer.

we are blessed people. is it wrong to use these blessings? I can't see that God would think so.

but the problems come when we get selfish.

it is such a simple truth that we hear all the time, but is so hard to do.

Africa taught me many things, but this sticks out the most and is hitting home the hardest these days:

God wants us to have the mentality of "what's mine is yours." Give abundantly, recieve abundantly.

hopefully you guys enjoyed some of those pictures.

fish out of water.

i've been so busy since returning to the west that I have hardly had anytime to think about the experience I just had half way across the world.

all I know is that when I do have time to myself and can think, I feel empty, sad, angry, confused, blessed, guilty, convicted, motivated, stuck.

why am I so blessed? the dream of every ugandan child in the school was to go to university. i am at a university except I hardly percieve it as a dream fulfilled. do I wish to change places with them? maybe; that way I don't have to feel so...I don't know.

it was so good to see my rwandan friends again and to understand a little more. I held hands with one of them. it was a neat moment.

uganda felt like home almost. hard to describe i guess. all I know is that i need to go back there soon. hopefully in may.

i got a job on campus to help make some extra cash so I can pay for a plane ticket in the summer. anyone who wants to join kris and I is more than welcome.

check here for all my photos from africa.

more updates soon.